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Hi @MDT 

Life isn't easy in the C21st - on-line university and dating apps and over-stimulated boring work-mates - it certainly ain't easy being green Kermit

Aw - look who I found

You can't blend in if you were meant to stand out

You are a sight better than your workmates Hamza - a lot better - they way you describe them - hm yes - they seem to be what we used to call posers - would be if they could be people - pretending to be interesting and to you - obviously not. 

I wouldn't worry about on-line dating either - but then - I recently said to my daughter that I didn't go to night-school to find a husband but I did - and she laughed and said that is not something anyone would usually say - it's true though - eew

It's not terrible being alone either - I have been for over 30 years now and it's okay - I get along with my present company - having been unhappy with my original family and it was a sad marriage so better to be alone than have unsuitable companions

But then - how do you know if you don't go out and look - I do hear you. I don't think we need to change to suit the present company either 

There are decent people about but not where you work obviously - and as for on-line dates - it sounds pretty desperate to me

 I think you are interesting - your writing gives me an insight into your life - you don't fit in easily but please - be yourself - it is not a good idea to try and be someone else

Sending best thoughts

Dec