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โ18-01-2019 11:25 PM
โ18-01-2019 11:25 PM
Re: I am struggling at the moment
Big lots of these @Faith-and-Hope. Missing you ๐๐
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โ18-01-2019 11:41 PM
โ18-01-2019 11:41 PM
Re: I am struggling at the moment
Super sorry about your psych and the waiting for something that maybe won't happen. I wonder if they really know what it is like to be in a place like you are and how much it just sucks so, so much ๐
I hope you cope with being human tomorrow. Just like it is human to have weakness for smelly people it is human to be messy sometimes. I also really hope there is something enjoyable about tomorrow for you though I get that might be a stretch. Aim for survive and anything more can be a bonus maybe?
Big love and quiet whispers. I am thankful you are here and you are you ๐๐
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โ19-01-2019 12:45 AM
โ19-01-2019 12:45 AM
Re: I am struggling at the moment
Cheerbear has put it so succinctly in the post above. She probably knows you better than I do.
Ill leave you alone for a while until you are more on top of things. Take care. Please.
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โ19-01-2019 09:37 AM
โ19-01-2019 09:37 AM
Re: I am struggling at the moment
Nope @Sans911, not at all. You got me to open up about something I was really struggling with so it was helpful and warranted ๐๐. No need to leave me alone either. I wouldnโt want that at all. I hope you are going ok ๐๐ค๐ป๐๐ค
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โ19-01-2019 09:48 AM
โ19-01-2019 09:48 AM
Re: I am struggling at the moment
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โ19-01-2019 10:04 AM
โ19-01-2019 10:04 AM
Re: I am struggling at the moment
@CheerBear I wanted to share something with you. One of the few good things that happens with age is youโve had a chance to watch things grow and change. Iโve watched kids who I struggled with their behaviour turn into amazing adults (including one of my own). Iโve watched kids who were so well behaved turned into adults I donโt respect as much. In the end Iโve learned that people will always change, sometimes we see it for the better, sometimes not. Iโve learned that it can change constantly so I try to keep an open mind. One of the biggest life lessens has been through the forum. Here we get to know each other so much more openly and intimately because so many barriers are taken away and it is just us and raw and human and beautiful.
Iโve watched friends relationships develop and go through hard times and survive against the odds. The thing I learned is that everyoneโs relationships is so different. I am in a unique position in that all my friends except for a very few are still married and some are reaching the 30 year relationship mark. I have been with them through all the trials and tribulations of these relationships. Each one has different things that hold them together, they are so varied. I would hear huge whinges about their partners at times (we used to have girls weekends which were really just a huge whinge fest of our partners fueled by much wine and good food :face_with_rolling_eyes:) I knew the good parts about their partners and loved their partners even though Iโd hear all the bad stuff. I learned this over time.....especially that relationships are messy.
This is is my very long round about way of saying I know that this whole relationship thing for you is new and messy but Iโll never judge you or him on it (as long as he is human and doesnโt do anything to deliberately hurt you.....then Iโll have my pitchfork ready ๐). I know it might be short lived and I know it might not. I am here for you no matter where you are at with it with my very non judgemental human face on.
And a PS I was no angel in my relationships either. It has taken this mess for me to see that part though. There are times Iโd like to turn back time but maybe Iโd make different mistakes instead.
I hope you are having an ok day. ๐๐ค
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โ19-01-2019 10:05 AM
โ19-01-2019 10:05 AM
Re: I am struggling at the moment
Oh thank you @Shaz51. They are beautiful ๐๐๐. Thank you for keeping it low key too ๐๐
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โ19-01-2019 10:11 AM
โ19-01-2019 10:11 AM
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โ19-01-2019 10:34 AM - edited โ19-01-2019 10:40 AM
โ19-01-2019 10:34 AM - edited โ19-01-2019 10:40 AM
Re: I am struggling at the moment
Thanks @outlander ๐๐
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โ19-01-2019 12:31 PM
โ19-01-2019 12:31 PM