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β13-04-2021 06:42 PM
β13-04-2021 06:42 PM
Sad indeed @Shaz51 have you thought about doing a cleansing of the property after the land has been cleared. I have read about these and you could do it your selfs with the smoke from dried sage ....write your own words and do it together.
Then it is onwards and upwards. Exciting time ahead to enjoy what ever you choose to do.ππΊ
β13-04-2021 06:51 PM
β13-04-2021 06:51 PM
Much love & hugs @Shaz51
I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you and Mr Shaz. Sending you both all my love and support xxx
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β13-04-2021 07:19 PM
β13-04-2021 07:19 PM
Oh @Shaz51 that really is devastating for you. No matter how you think you can prepare for these things it really hitshome when ot finally happens - feeling so much for you my sister and sending you massive hugs and soooo much love πππππ
β13-04-2021 07:33 PM
β13-04-2021 07:33 PM
So sorry for your pain @Shaz51 wishing you strength of purpose and clarity of vision for your future plans. Maybe it's darkest just before the dawn.
β13-04-2021 07:40 PM
β13-04-2021 07:46 PM
β13-04-2021 07:46 PM
That is awful @Shaz51 ,
to see just nothing where your home stood. I would not cope at all with what you are going through. You give so much to so many here. I do wish I could comfort you and offer real friendship. But this is what we have so have to make the best of it that we can
lovw peri
β13-04-2021 07:47 PM
β13-04-2021 07:47 PM
Such a difficult experience dear lady.
You are being strong, you have been strong, and you will continue to be strong, because that is your way. The days when you are not as strong as on other days are not less meaningful, nor do they mean you are weak; they are simply days that you take to look after yourself.
When you are able to, you may like to devise a sort of ritual type experience where you remember your old home, give thanks to all that it has been to you and your family. Maybe keep some part to make a memory piece out of? I expect you've thought of that yourself though, being the thoughtful, creative soul you are.
Be well Shaz51, look after you.
β13-04-2021 07:59 PM
β13-04-2021 07:59 PM
Oh no @Shaz51 . My heart breaks for you despite never having been through what you've experienced in the last year or 2π’. That must have been so distressing and upsetting to watch. I just wish there was something more I could do for you but I can't unfortunately. All I can give is my support, friendship, love and a listening ear whenever you post here on the forums which I know isn't much in the scheme of things.
You are such a wonderful and caring person and I love having you here on the forums. You really do emulate all of the values of SANE in your role as a Community Guide and as a general forum member and I admire you greatly.
Thinking of you in these tough times from Melbourne in forumland and sending you hugs π€ and best wishes! Keep me posted on what's going on and please remember to call out for support if you need it.
Judi9877βΊοΈπππ
β13-04-2021 08:00 PM
β13-04-2021 08:00 PM
The finality of it would be driven home. I am so sorry you had the whole distressing experience. I guess it is a kind of grieving.
β13-04-2021 09:02 PM
β13-04-2021 09:02 PM
Aw man @Shaz51 that's so hard! What a tough thing to watch. You're in my thoughts. Sorry I do. Have much energy to say more or be helpful. Glad you and Mr Shaz have each other
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