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  • Author : Owlunar
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  • Topic : Something’s not right
25 Mar 2018 02:34 AM
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Hi @Sans911

 

Thanks so much for your reply - this is the kind of info I am looking for - such waits are unacceptable and hit the most vulnerable people in our society

 

When my son was alive I was well aware of his SI/SH/SA issues but there was nothing I could do about it - I was helpless. I don't know what it feels like myself personally but if a person ends their life it makes me feel a terrible despair - why did that have to happen?

 

And I don't read all of this forum - only enough to know this happens and this is a very sorry situation for a country who advertises free medical care

 

I  am so sorry you had to wait so long for a public psychologist and even seeing a suicide prevention counseller was not enough for you. I know a little of your story but not much - I know you have very dark moods at times and now I know how dark

 

I am really glad you had enough cover for your dentures - going through a public dentist can be a nightmare - I have a story I choose not to tell - too graphic - but yes - the system lets people down badly and I am so sorry - and I am sure I have already said this - that you are so constrained you are forced to wait for a psychologist - that is so bad

 

So - if you don't mind my asking - how often can you see a public psychologist and for how long? Who decides that?

 

Obnviously people who are injured or whatever have noticable trauma - there is no doubt in anyone's mind - but what I read here is about people like yourself with MI - who helps. No one can see the pain - 

 

It's is like chronic pain a lot actually - no one can see pain - and everyone's opinion about pain is different and everyone's experience is different

 

I wish I could help - any info I gather here will only strengthen my resovle to act - it is private info and will stay that way but I am so glad you have told me this much - the system - indeed the country - is letting you down badly

 

Best thoughts

 

Dec

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