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Right - there is not a lot anyone can do about changing their life at 7.30  on a Wednesday night @outlander- though I did make a choice sometime since it got dark

And that's about writing a letter to my rellies - I think I was waiting until I felt like doing that - I often wait until I feel like it before I do something like writing a heart-felt letter that I will send-express-snail-mail.

We can accept our life - or we can do whatever we can to change it - we have a choice at least and at my advanced years I have found it's better to try and change anything we can't accept - and somehow figure out the difference

About hating your life - are you having a different life-hating event or is this a different one - btw - this is a rhetorical question - I was hoping your life would improve but it took me a long time to get through the dark time in my life - so glad I kept trying to change things although someone I was seeing at the time told me to stop trying to change things - how stupid is that - I didn't see much more of that person

I don't read the forum as I did some time back - I guess that's an improvement in my own life - but it seemed to me you were battling even after your family left - I hope things give up and let you just live your life from time to time

I wish you the best - life can be a bitch at times

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