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  • Author : Owlunar
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06 Apr 2017 11:57 PM
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Hi @Shaz51

 

Yes - my cat has settled after her meltdown and who knows what a cat thinks and knows anyway?

 

For a while it felt as if I had a different cat that looked like mine - what happened to my snugly little friend - she had turned into a tyrant

 

I think she was insecure - and needed more reassurance and cuddles - but I did not like being disturbed in the middle of the night - about 3 times a night I think - I wasn't counting -and I was cross and shoved her off me - shouting at times - I was annoyed

 

But this must have made her more upset - so I tried excessive evening cuddles - lots of them - reverse psychology - she settled down - thank goodness - and I will go away the next time I feel like it because I can - I am honest, human and have the means - and she is a cat and can stay in her own home because my family is okay (I don't know about pleased) to come and check on her

 

Errrr - I have threatened her with my cousins cattery - but the cat doesn't understand that much English and I don't think I could do that to her anyway

 

I hope you are okay and your kidney infection has settled - and also you Mum - how is she atm

 

Dec

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