not coping

[Lee82]

Little one just popping in to send you some gentle hugs and lots of love. I truly hope your migraines subside soon hun I know how frustrating it is to put up with them. It has been way too long that you have had to put up with them @outlander

❤️💜💙💚

[Owlunar]

Wonderful thoughts @outlander 

Thanks for posting them - we all need to be reminded at times - and not to score ourselves harshing or with arrogance when we think of others - we only need to be ourselves

Looking at the things we fear and facing our fear with courage - that's so important. I know you have come a long way in the years I have known you - and your lot in life has not been easy and you would have easily been discouraged but in spite of yourself and maybe because of your circumstances you have done a great deal and involve yourself in your comunity and with your private commitments. 

This year as tested us all and we are all still here and that is one huge achievement for all of us individually - together - it is immeasurable

Dec

We are enough for the universe

[Sophia1]

Dear @outlander 

I was not able to find you for a while.

At other times it took me far too long to respond to others.

Then I find that I have to leave the computer and move.

Time for dinner or shopping or appointments.

Catch up with carers.

All of the above might be seen as excuses. I sincerely say with hand on heart they are not.

You also know the feeling of being drained of energy.

Trying to tackle too many tasks at once.

Taking on other's pain and offering support too much.

I truly am sorry to read that you are still suffering with migraines (bad enough) then other ongoing diagnoses, conditions.

I can feel the strong love and support for you on this thread which takes me to a place where I feel reassured that you are being held.

I am not uptodate again I find myself writing with your current situation and family. 

I am finding this is the case with everyone on the forums whom I have known for some time.

I can only manage to pass by and let you know that I do care very much even if you do not see my words, my icon.

Take care and be kind to outlander

much love to you

💚

[outlander]

I have more diagnoses that require alot of changes again 😞

[Sans911]

@outlander ❣️ ❣️ ❣️ ❣️

[Snowie]

@outlander @Sans911 💌💌

[Emelia8]

I'm listening @outlander 👂💓

if you want to talk or need to unload.

Hi @Snowie @Sans911 @Sophia1 @Owlunar 

Emelia 🍒

[outlander]

its so hard @Sans911 @Snowie @Emelia8
not only does my diet have to be dairy free, low sugar and low carb. ive also found out that im really allergic to wheat, also peanuts and shellfish. i had to find out my results through the pathology place. the dr hasnt rung or anything either. hes really hopeless. these ones are allergies not intolerances so more serious.

[outlander]

@Sophia1  im glad you popped in. it doesnt matter to me that you cant keep up. i totally understand, im just glad when your able to pop in. i very much vaule our friendship too even if we dont talk as often. i often wonder how you are so dont be a sranger, our always welcome to come and chat here without catching up. our presence is enough. much love to you

[outlander]

its been a tough ear so so many including yourself @Owlunar im grateful for my friends here. it wouldve been much harder o get through without you all