Depression- Really Struggling- may be triggering

[Former-Member]

Yay i cant wait for another episode Spooky @Spookytookims

[Spookytookims]

@Former-Member You should be able to make any thread you like as long as it has a warning.  Others have made threads that subsequently had a warning put on them, so that shouldn't be a problem.  We can't know what will be upsetting to others and the forum is for support for all of us.  So just put a warning on it and it should be ok.  You need to be able to discuss what you need to, and others on here may need to discuss it too.  If it upsets anyone, with the warning there, they will know to stay away.

[Spookytookims]

This next one is going to be a bit differentI think @Former-Member...  Im having a bit of difficulty weaving the ideas together, but hopefully it will end up ok.

[Former-Member]

Yeah i know @Spookytookims
I feel awkward commenting on others threads if a few others comment to now
Thats ok im sure itll be great

[Spookytookims]

Yeah @Former-Member  I have to admit it is even confusing to me in here, so I definitely understand where you are coming from.  But the forums are govt funded I understand.  So they technically belong to all of us.  So I try to keep that in mind.  To me that tells me they areas much mine as anyones. So nobody has more rights here than anyone else. So if you want to post, do so.  As long as it doesnt contravene any guidelines you have every right to do so.

[CheerBear]

Hey there friends @Spookytookims and @Former-Member. I'm floating around and half listening here and wanting to say hi but feeling awkward about butting in so I haven't yet. But then I read how you're feeling a bit awkward too lil-caterpillar and so I thought I'd share that I think it's kind of ok to feel a bit funny sometimes here. It's good that you're trying to work it out though.

Hope today is a good one for you both

[Owlunar]

Hi @Spookytookims - you are dealing with the conversation with @Former-Member so well I didn't want to but in - like @CheerBear - but what you said about lil-pre-butterfly's so called previous friend was so good I wanted to comment on that - well said

We can't change other people but we don't have to put up with biatchy things that they say either - I have let people go in the past - and we can get on with our lives better without someone taking out their on neuroses on us - but yes - we do grieve the loss of what must have been good early on - life does change though

And you have that list lil-pre-butterfly - looks easy in a list - does it feel easier - I do hope so

That breast lump and the pelvic exam and pap-smear are really bothering you - and I really do understand that - and you have your exams in a very short time - less than two weeks now - and your Nan's DOD - all very hard things - you would not have to have emotional discomfort to feel anxious and tense with all of that

I understand - and I am glad you girls are chatting as you do - again - well done Spooky

Dec

[Former-Member]

I never thought of it that way @Spookytookims i just dont want to get in trouble❤❤

@CheerBear goodmorning to you
Your not intruding at all. I appreciate your opinions to so comment on anything you like ❤❤ yeah just being very careful around here at the moment. Its not even me being triggered ive leaent how to recognise the titles and know how much is too much it more not feeling welcome on here now. I appreciate peoples honesty though

[Former-Member]

Your also welcome to comment to @Owlunar youve been standing by me as well. And i appreciate it and everyone elses views and knowldege.
Looks abit easier in a list but its still prob a good idea to actually breathe
Yes very emotional things and before that i had the first easter without her and also her first birthday not being here

[Spookytookims]

@Owlunar and @CheerBear  No intrusion,  but Dec I do like being put in a girl category with @Former-Member , makes me feel younger 🙂