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I know those feels my Retiisi @ENKELI 

Everything seems unusually difficult and it takes an enormous amount of energy and effort.

Socialising is too hard.

I can barely feed myself soup without wearing it.

People are unpredictable. I find them difficult to navigate and they constantly contradict themselves. That confusion doesn’t help me.

Not me. Straightforward, pragmatic, do anything for a laugh, will eat your food, and the area I occupy needs to be shipshape and Bristol fashion.

Animals, they are not confusing.

Hot chocolate, not confusing.

Mmmm chocolate 🤤

Hugs G

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Hi @sosad-666 

 

I miss reading your contributions to this 'Best Friends Club'. I always thought your contributions were so lovely and supportive. I'm lonely and sad as well, and I have had many people make me feel invisible.  

 

Although I am just popping by this club, I just wanted you to know that I recognised your pain.  I hope you have the strength to join in again with this club.   You are definitely not pathetic or unloved, your daughter loves you, but I understand that you are feeling lonely, sad and utilised.

 

Hope you are okay.

 

Warmest regards

 

R🌻

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hope everyone's enjoying the last bits of sunshine before the sunset 😊

 

@PeppyPatti @Oaktree @Former-Member @SmilingGecko @Glisten @Patches59 @ENKELI @MJG017 @StuF @greenpea @Dimity @Shaz51 @Patticake @Healandlove @Mustang67 + everyone else!!!

 

going to grab a cuppa 🍵

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@ArraDreaming wrote:
@rav3n hey yes your right
we will hike, set up, then sleep, pack up, hike to cars like a loop
Nicki won’t be coming she’s too boisterous haha not sure how she would go in the night

oo sounds exciting!! are you planning on taking your kiddo sometime soon? @ArraDreaming 

i really love walking and i tried to be a hiking-lover but as soon as there's some uphills, i almost get an asthma attack 😅  i've been practicing using a stairmaster so i can finally complete my first hike without giving up. is the area you hike got lakes/waterfalls, or is it more forest-y?

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We were meant to have gone and been home already but we had to postpone just because of some other things we have going on, bit hard to leave overnight at the moment,
kiddo upset but we have rescheduled for a another weekend before it gets too hot which just gives us more time to prepare @rav3n

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hes only 6 so it won’t be particularly challenging just the experience

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oh yes, that upcoming summer heat would make hiking tough! hopefully the weather for the next month or so isn't too bad @ArraDreaming 

 

true keep forgetting how energetic 6 year olds are!! how's your weekend been? your other kiddo's arm getting better?

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Full of beans @rav3n kid that never shuts up haha

Yeah he’s doing a lot better! Is a lot happier now Got his cast changed so it’s much more comfortable and we see his confidence coming back
He just wants to ride his bike so hes a big sad about that but finding other things to do with him instead
we got good news about his pins though, we thought they were going to be in for a while but they will come out when his cast does so that is good to hear
A few times I have had to tell him to slow down, stop climbing, so hes starting to feel better at least

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Hello @rav3n enjoy your cuppa, just relaxing here and looking outside my window. The air is still. Haven't checked the weather for tomorrow.  May wake up and watch sunrise which is something I try to do. Its a great way to start the day. The workmen over the road have gone and the house has been renovated. They used to have an early start at like 7:30am Don't know if its going up for sale/auction. Thought it may be a disability unit as theres lots of investment going into disability housing these days and they have constructed a ramp out the front door. Anyway theres been nobody there in weeks. I won't feel strange sitting out the front like I'm some kind of solar gazer or something. They never seemed to be bothered me sitting out there. I wasn't being nosy just getting the morning sunlight in my eyes and face, they just happened to be there which was a bit inconvenient. My back patio has no direct view of the sun so i was stuck out the front lol

 

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yayy!! glad to hear his confidence is coming back and he's feeling better!! @ArraDreaming 

ooo that's good that they can take out the pin and cast at the same time, saves an extra trip to the docs too