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22 Aug 2021 11:39 AM
22 Aug 2021 11:39 AM
awwww thank you for your message my mum @Owlunar
Is there a time limit about deciding what to do with your land and your insurance money? --- this is a very good point , no we have no time limit which is wonderful and because i own half of the house we are living in with my mum is great
travelling is way back on the back burner now
mr shaz wants to rebuid especial when we go to our block to mow
we have a decision which builder to pick and with everything that is going on the builders said it will be about 20 months when finished
soo looking after mum is first ,
thinking once things start mr shaz will be ok , it is the waiting he does not like
yes hope this will be all over for you soon and you are able to travel again xoxo
22 Aug 2021 03:21 PM
22 Aug 2021 03:34 PM
22 Aug 2021 03:34 PM
Hi @Shaz51 and @outlander
I'm glad you have plenty of choices regarding your real estate Shaz - also I'm thinking it would be hard to travel if you have to have dialysis - what a puzzle for you - and yes - caring for your mum is first
I really want to travel - I am having too much pain right now to think to far ahead - all the fun I had when I flooded the laundry and kitchen two weeks ago - and tried to sweep the water out - (shouldn't over-do) - okay - I have done my shoulder a disservice and I will have to talk to the pain clinic tomorrow to see what they can do
I am not looking forward to another day in hospital but better a day than days or longer waiting for them to fit me in - better I sort it out before it gets any worse
And then get back to walking further each day - which I was doing - after all - I need to walk around airports
I bought a much smaller suitcase that I can carry-on and not have to wait around the carosel with all the pushing and shoving that tends to happen there - it's easier to take little and wash my clothes in the laundry when I am away
All the best ladies
Dec
22 Aug 2021 03:51 PM
22 Aug 2021 03:51 PM
sorry to hear you are in pain @Owlunar
also I'm thinking it would be hard to travel if you have to have dialysis - yes very true @Owlunar , @outlander , @Clawde
the nearest dialysis is 30kms away
and mr shaz want to sell this house in the future and move closer to the city for doctors and specialists as I can not drive
12 Sep 2021 06:51 PM
12 Sep 2021 06:51 PM
hello my second mum @Owlunar , hope you are going ok
have not heard from you lately xoxo, sending you lots of hugs
well i have had my second Jab
mum and mr shaz has their`s next week
mr shaz and i went away for 2 nights and my aunty and cousin did come to ring and check on my mum , funny at first they seemed they did not care xxxx
back home today and catching up on everything , feels like i did not have a break
ohh well , dont know what happened but mum wants me to make downstairs her bedroom soo she does not have to use the steps xoxo
18 Sep 2021 04:39 PM
18 Sep 2021 04:39 PM
@Owlunar, i am hoping you are ok my second mum
missing you lots xoxo
18 Sep 2021 05:43 PM
18 Sep 2021 05:43 PM
Ok,' Iife can be a Pain'
Life is a pain, It's full off joy and despair and misssed opportunities. The reality is with a bad head you dont see the window open, it's there you just need to look through it.....stay strong and safe
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