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A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)

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So glad to hear you are a little better hun. ☺️
yes we watched the footy together last night. Unfortunately our team did not win so Mr9 was very upset. 😕 he is so passionate about it. He is playing his very first footy match tomorrow. He is extremely excited  but also nervous about it

@Anastasia 

what are your plans for today? 

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@Anastasia- hope all those antibiotics work soon, is the chest infection?
@Emelia8of cause you want to go home. Familiar territory where you can relax easier and process things and prepare for the best sendoff for your man. Be sensible sensible, you'll find your feet easier at home, do engage with supports there. Start with your friends and the breast care nurse, if you want to.
Anything goes with Grief, there's no set rules. Hugzz PS you are still our Em 💗20210415grief (2)_1.jpeg

 

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@Clawde  nice to see you around. How are you doing?

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Just bed @Lee82 for me 😔

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Hi having a lovely quiet afternoon, how are you going? @Lee82 

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Thank you @Former-Member sinus. Every year I get it, knocks mefor six for a few days. I'll come good, appreciate your message x

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That's ok hun. You need to rest as much as you can right now beautiful. Concentrate on getting better. 
sending you some hugs and thoughts of a quick recovery. Holding your hand @Anastasia 

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Bumma! @Anastasia 💙20200308getwell (4)_1.jpeg

 

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So lovely to hear @Clawde 

I am not up to much. I have a massive headache so I am just laying on the couch resting. 

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@Emelia8 

 

Hi Em 

 

I guess you are still driving home - taking breaks I hope - or you are home and sleeping - I hope - so this is just a message to keep in touch 

 

You are most certainly someone and something - you are a precious individual who cares about people and you passing through a life-changing event and it's mind-rattling and confusing - after all - the first thing you wrote after your husband died was "I don't know what to do" 

 

You will find yourself again - and life will be different - we will all still be here feeling inadequate - when we are not - and hopeless when we are not - and life does go on after a tragic loss and things do change - but you are still the magically gifted person when it comes to supportive messages - that will happen again

 

Take life a few minutes at a time - you will be busy when you get home - there is so much to do when someone dies and the people will be around to see you and tell you their story and support you as they can - and yes - you know you need to be home to deal with all of this

 

He was loved yes - and larger than life - and so are you

 

Dec

 

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