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With coffee .... without coffee. A place for us coffee lovers and coffee!

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Re: With coffee .... without coffee. A place for us coffee lovers and coffee!

An air guitar - now that's one I could still play @Former-Member  - I like that idea

 

Now - right now - I could really enjoy an iced coffee - I wonder if I have enough milk to make one right now - 

 

Well maybe - I might feel better if I did and I might have enough energy after that to walk up to the shops and get some more milk - it's pretty humid today

 

Dec

 

That would go down wellThat would go down well

Re: With coffee .... without coffee. A place for us coffee lovers and coffee!

Made my day @Owlunar 

 

Sorry for not posting. Am tired, stressed and cranky.  I effed up at job training. I'm full of self doubt and am in need of a scream, a cry and a hug. I'll be fine tomorrow I'm just kicking myself because I am a perfectionist.

Re: With coffee .... without coffee. A place for us coffee lovers and coffee!

Hi @LadyleahRDBloom 

 

You have just made my day - while drinking my iced-coffee - which means I have to go up to the shops for some more or go without milk

 

So you stuffed up at being a perfectionist - that is a really hard career btw - I tried that one when my kids were young - really young - like babies - and I had a weird idea that if I kept everything up to scratch it would all be okay - the whole world would be fine

 

Of course with a baby and a two year old I couldn't do it - totally remember bursting into tears and crying my eyes out and I felt such a failure. In time I realised I was in the wrong line of work - there is a huge space between being someone's mother and an accountant - 

 

Anyway - back to you - what did you fail at?

 

Stuff-up at job training, in need of a scream, a cry and a hug - I can find a hug to send - I am sure - that's easy and much needed - I hear you

 

Oh yes - one of my favourites

 

I thought I might have lost this when I got a new computer but here it is - hugs are the bestI thought I might have lost this when I got a new computer but here it is - hugs are the best

 

Job training is the best place to stuff up - kinda public - I do understand - but better learning that at job training than when you are on the job - everyone stuffs up at new start stuff - been there - I am computer-great but as a typist - on an electric type-writer - I didn't get my fingers off the keys fast enough - wow - I could hardly believe a touch-typist could make such a mess but here I was

 

And here you are - scream - cry - whatever

 

I am glad I am not the only person who has failed at being a perfectionist - I am wondering if anyone can achieve that role for long

 

But maybe - I am still drinking my iced coffee - worth having btw

 

Maybe tomorrow will be better

 

Sending more than hugs

 

Dec

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Comfort coffee for you @LadyleahRDBloom 

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@LadyleahRDBloom  sending you lots of tender hugs HeartHeart

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@Former-Member  That person must be cast out!!!!!! Into the decaffnderness!!!!! We don't need that kind of negative thinking here!!!

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Awwwww! @Former-Member  Thanks presh! I love it!

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