thanks @Meowmy had ph call from friend of friend been in touch with on and off over last 12mths , ended up as rambling lecture of everything they think they are expert on,got sick of gettting talked over, them not letting me answer questions they asked in first place, then they kept going of on tangents as said, I even said 'im not interested' a few times, they just ignored it while talking continuously I turned ph down and tuned out , made no difference. had to explain to them what I felt was happening, they had answer for everything, contradicting themselves all the time and justifying it by saying 'i sent sent them a cartoon by sms yesterday or ok day b4, so that allows them to rubbish it, argue about it, demand explanations then say they are wrong, and that took and hour into 'conversation' to get to supposed reason for the call .. which started with him complaining about a neighbour. I had to hang up, should have done it 30mins earlier, they never change
