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gday cool friend @Meowmy enjoy  your herbal tea

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gday mate @Jacques have you got any pets ? i have been looking at dogs ay

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not a lot here @Bill16 just trying to keep cool 41 here today

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Dear @Glisten 

 

I'm very impacted on your post.  Again, I wasn't caring for my emotional wellbeing and I over shared. 

. You clearly understand the ins and outs of having a narcissistic and borderline parent.  
 Your words really resonated with me. You got me to feel understood. 

It's weird - you advised you write to   prioritizing my self-care, especially my art. Amazing. I have my first drawing lessons with an artist on Tuesday at 10 am. I'm terrified !! 
You positively write  to focus on myself is exactly what I need. I'm working this week to  heal from the effects of my upbringing."

 "It' s very hard work, and your honesty about your own daily struggles is very much appreciated.

 

I get it. I used to think it took years just to recover from what iv been through or your marriage. 

Thankyou 

 

TAB
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hope things okay @Meowmy , feeling sorry for  myself a bit here. Tomorrows another day

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@TAB I went into therapy at 24 years old so I can break the pattern of these horrible mothers that have been in my family on my mother's side. 

 

It breaks my heart when I read about your sisters children. 

 

@TAB @Jacques @Bill16 @Meowmy @Glisten @avant-garde @Gremlin24 @Appleblossom 

 

I just want to say thankyou. Thankyou. I feel so so much better. 

Um ......

Sorry I over shared. I'm getting the t-shirt next week 

 

' hang on, I'm about to overshare' 

 

@Meowmy - thankyou very much. 

@avant-garde - hear hear. Thankyou. First drawing class to get back into drawing is on Wednesday. 

 

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@PeppyPatti 

 

My mother manipulated my daughter, maybe a bit like yours. I foolishly forgave her too much and became scapegoat.

 

 just hear so many cut off stories these days

 

so sad there are so many generation gaps

 

@Bill16 @StuF thanks for being supportive 

 

@Meowmy @TAB @Jacques @greenpea @Glisten and all…

TAB
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Nephews are in 30s now @PeppyPatti prob not had much to do w them last 15 years

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hey @Bill16 sorry mate, i was AFK. umm no no pets. i had a pet mouse when i was a kid, but nothing since. i could not afford to have a pet these days. would be nice though. what sort of dog mate?

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@TAB hey tabby, hope you feel better soon. Kind of okayish here. Take care