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Re: Far and Away

I have been distant because you hurt me terribly @Former-Member on the very day I needed compassion and support - so it will take time for me to get over that.

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Well Zoe7, if it's over the post on the WORRY thread, about 'Pet loss' I was worried if you read it, but certainly didn't intend to hurt you,  directly or indirectly, that's not me,  cause I felt for you, even though Cat was sic for months, it still hurts I know.. Think your experience 

bumped into my own big losses / grief... and I needed to separate it and reached out. I still don't think we should grieve ourselves quite so much over pets, but know animal lovers who've been so mortified. I had to distance from that pain. I did express my sympathy to you though. So I'm sorry, you felt that way. You did seem to be getting so much support I didn't think you'd notice how I was feeling. Chin Up xox

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Very tired tonight got @Zoe7, so here, but quiet.  Back at uni today, but my morning went to pieces first ..... carer for D2 got the day wrong, D3 needed help to get to a dr's apt with no warning, which then ran overtime, and meds were needed from the chemist, making me later .... then couldn't find my ID card to get onto campus ..... :face_with_rolling_eyes:.

 

Lots of walking too cos I have to avoid public transport until the Covid issue here gets back under control ...... 

 

Jave come home and fallen into a heap.  Cooked some shellfish for dinner without realising they needed a good rinse first, so we made our way through shell-grit ..... 😬.

 

One of those days .....

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Oh what a day @Faith-and-Hope I hope you can put your feet up now and relax a little Heart

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Heading to bed now @Zoe7 @Former-Member .... anyone else around.   Struggling to stay awake.

 

G'night 💞🌷

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Goodnight Hon - me too - been 'a day' @Faith-and-Hope Heart

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Good morning @Zoe7 @Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member @Shaz51 and anyone else around.

Hoping your day goes ok for you.

Please take care of yourself.

Lots of love and hugs 💕💕💕

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Morning @Snowie ..... off to a slow start here.

 

Hope you are feeling better today @Zoe7 .  Is it back to work ?

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No not back today @Faith-and-Hope @Snowie - my stomach has been turning circles since yesterday and is worse today - hoping it passes soon and I can go back tomorrow. Not as tired today but I have slept for most of the last 28 hours since I came home yesterday. Have a pdoc appointment later this afternoon so hoping to be okay for that but not going to see Mum now until tomorrow - can't risk taking in any bug. Pdoc should be okay as we still very much social distance.

 

Mum has been moved to a ward so some great news for today 😁 She will still be in hospital for a while as she needs to continue to heal and gain some strength but it is looking so much more positive now.

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So glad to hear your Mum has been moved to a ward @Zoe7 That must be a relief for you all. I hope she continues to build up her strength and doesn't have to be in there for too much longer.

 

Sounds like you have needed the sleep hon so I am glad you are putting yourself first. Work is important but your health and wellbeing is even more important. I hope your pdoc appointment goes ok this afternoon.

 

 

 

 

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