Living with Ourselves

[Sophia1]

thanks everyone 

would have been lovely at the beach...

dog would have loved the time @Bill16

sophia

[Shaz51]

lovely @Sophia1

[Bill16]

Hello @Sophia1 hope you had a nice day,beach was good.  Boot

[Sophia1]

I had a busy day for me @Bill16

so am about to log off and make myself some dinner...

I would have loved to have been at the beach...

I like beaches that are less popular....

speak again soon

Sophia

[Sophia1]

hello @Shaz51

so sorry that I missed your post update re your health and so many others at the moment...

I hope that they have given you effective medication and your system is cleared sooner than later...

Keep on top of that Shaz..

I know that sounds hollow along with everything else that you have to keep up with..very important to try to maintain regularity...

How is your uncle now? Have they managed to get the staff under control?

I am concerned about Mr Shaz and his current feelings....

I have not been able to follow your thread that you normally post on as moves too quickly along with a few others that I try to keep abreast of...

Does Mr Shaz have a mental health team who check up on him? a case worker?

I know in the past that you have written about how he does not like pdocs perhaps even gp's?

His medication regime is often affected when he is very stressed I know..

I am concerned about those feelings that he had though..

Would he talk to lifeline if you were on the telephone with him...loud speaker on a mobile or something like that?

Perhaps he would be worried about upsetting you..

I hope that when you tell him that him feeling that way and not taking his medication correctly affects how he feels...has a domino effect...you then become more stressed...your health can be affected...

both of you working together looking after your health is achievable..

Even carers Australia have support workers who could visit you both..

Do you have a therapist to whom you can talk and relay just how much pressure you have on you and have had for some time now?

I hope that all of my questions do not offend you...

that my comments do not make you feel more pressured..

I sincerely want you to have some help that you so much deserve..

Sophia

[Bill16]

Hope you have a great day @Sophia1

[Sophia1]

same to you @Bill16

I just postponed a test that I need to have for another week...taken some pressure off of myself..

It is hot here again today...

are you off to the beach again with your dog?

@eudemonism

how about you are you off for a drive to the beach with your dog?

You and boot might pass each other without knowing..

what an incredible world we live in...

[eudemonism]

Nah I'm not @Sophia1 the dog likes to take it easy during the warmer weather...
Same goes for me...
Have you gotten anything done today???
I've vacuumed and mopped, washed some towels, caught up with mentor for coffee, watered the garden-hoping some stone fruit seeds i planted pop up-apricot in particular...-gave the patch of ground a good soaking...
Not sure what's happening for rest of the day.......

[Bill16]

Hello @Sophia1 might take her down this arvo,not sure see how I feel.have a good one 😊

[Shaz51]

Thank you for your message @Sophia1

I think I need 3 threads

Me --- very important to try to maintain regularity...-- very true , the doctor is worried and said I need to look after my kidney more , so I have messaged my dietician about it

my Uncle surgery went well , he is recovering in hospital which will take a while

Mr Shaz have a mental health team who check up on him? a case worker? -- No , he has no one to keep check on him  , but we went to the doctor on monday and the doctor told him not to take all the meds togeher so he has started to take them at he right time

Do you have a therapist to whom you can talk-- no , I have emailed the carers australia

My Mum had a fall on tuesday  and hurt her leg and the doctor kept her in hospital overnight

she had to go today and have her leg redressed , but she had another fall and bumped her head , doctor is worried about her , mum is at home now and I have to keep an eye on her to see if she is ok

hugs and love @Sophia1