Life can be a Pain

[Former-Member]

hello @Shaz51

I have had that feeling for a couple of weeks, sore throat swollen glands, general aching on and off like a yoyo...just generally run down feeling

so i have slowed down

hard for you to do i know shaz, please try to get some extra rest, because we all know that life just becomes even harder still when we have physical illness added to our piles of.........

sending you a warm hug xxx

[Shaz51]

thank you @Former-Member xx

yes we all need to know when to slow down and rest , well home now with a cup of coffee xx

how has your day been

[Former-Member]

hello @Shaz51

still continuing on from yesterday

best you dont ask but thank you for doing so

i have written a whole saga somewhere else

rest up and look after you xxx

[Shaz51]

Hello  @Dec, @Former-Member

I am tired now as we usually mow the 4 lawns together as they are next to each other , but they all said to come back next week to mow

so we went and picked up mum`s rubbish and took it to the dump and then hubby trimmed all our bushes

Yes , I hope not , @mohill, I think it might be getting run down and I had the Flu needle last week too

Mr Shaz does things or changes things which I have been thinking he does on purpose , but I have not told anyone so it surprised me and i expected it

when We picked up mum`s rubbish , hubby did the ususal and Mum said " DOES HE DO THAT ON PURPOSE "

[Former-Member]

hello @Shaz51

You and Mr Shaz have been working hard mowing all of those lawns... all physical work

you mentioned that you had the flu injection last week. Is that round about the same time that you noticed all of the physical symptoms of feeling unwell?

I know that when I used to have the flu injection I would actually come down with a lighter version of the flu.

Still worthwhile having a checkup at your gp to stop it in it's tracks, be on the safe side. Remind your gp that you had the flu injection as well.

Mr Shaz changing his mind perhaps a little quirk he has created to feel more in charge of himself as opposed to medication. Whatever it is it would be about him nothing to do with you Shaz. He adores you xxx

[Shaz51]

Hello @Owlunar, @Former-Member

I would actually come down with a lighter version of the flu.-- i asked the doctor today and yes i have the lightr version of the flu

I am ok  @mohill, after his reaction yesterday , I said what`s up  and he said that he is goes for days on half the meds and then last night he took the full meds

[Shaz51]

Hello @Owlunar, are you ok my awesome friend

[Owlunar]

Hi @Shaz51 @Former-Member @outlander @BlueBay @PhoenixRising

I have not been well - and I really am not sure what ever the problem has been but I lost my appetite and my back pain was bad and I had a host of bad memories and I could go on - but it sounds as if other people had a serve of whatever it was -

Why do we feel that little bit better when we find out that there must be something in the water because other people have the same sort of complaint?

Anyway - I did feel better today but Fridays are busy - and I had a girl in to do domestic work here and she was someone I had not had before and she was so lazy it was remarkable - I have never had someone sit on my unmade bed after I have told them to take the sheet and doona cover off - because I cannot do it without hurting myself - and get it in the washing machine because I need her to hang it out

Ah.................eek ...........d'uh - this was amazing - and I am so glad I do not complain often because this girl got a bad report after she left - I had to let my agency know

Ah - oh - this laziness went on and on - - ah   --- enough said

But I cleaned the cat's litter last night and either when I lifted the tray empty it or lifted the new bag of little I have pulled muscles in my shoulder - and I was a bit tense - but feel okay now -

I have to stop griping - but this has been a bad few days - I had nothing to bring to the table here - sorry about that - and had a much better day today but -------- enough said about the laziness

So I hope I am more useful now - so I like being useful and I like to be able to vent and feel much better when I have done that

Would that work if I deleted the whole lot? - No - I think not

Glad to be back though - glad I have had something to settle the shoulder - something to relieve the inflamed tendon - and see that people are battling - and feel less isolated - something I can deal with

Dec

[Shaz51]

Ohhh my friend @Owlunar, I knew something was not right , that is why I asked if you were ok xx

sending you lots of hugs my friend

[Owlunar]

Thanks @Shaz51

It was strange but I really felt strange and thanks for asking

I think some of us clue into each other at times - even though we have never met and most unlikely never will

But yes - I feel better tonight

About your husband  - um ,- Does he do that on purpose? I wondered that about my ex-h - and all these years later if I want to strain my brain - I still wonder -

But what your mother said - or asked - spot on - hit the nail on the head - of course

It's amazing what we can cope with - esp when it was such a long time ago -

Dec

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