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Life can be a Pain

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Thinking of you @Owlunar 💖💓

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Can i ask you a question @Owlunar
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Hi Dec

Glad your aunt acknowledged the birthday card

No mention of visiting them - hmm - might need a phone call.

Feelings / emotions certainly can come out of nowhere & go all over the place. No wonder you froze "sat and stared. But were you just really tired? Good on you self caring with warm milk and not giving up on sleep 👍

I do wish you well for your pending holiday in Hobart.

Love what you said @Owlunar :
" I have definitely reached an age and stage in life where I can allow myself to feel strong emotions without fear and they do pass". AND
" I will not let anyone tell me how to feel" I hope to get there some day too.

What did you mean "people try and keep partners... alive by keeping other people away" ??

Sorry you feel stiff and sore this morning.

What did you mean "I found the still-point in my own life overnight and I am okay" ? Was it a 'peace with God?' Trusting, as you say - trusting "that all will work out all right

I know what ya mean - an edginess that's coming from something external - can't explain.

Hope your daughter's tests ? surgery are not serious. Thats a concern,  especially having lost a child, too much  for me. 

Talk about "waking up woke up bursting" i'm thinking of putting a potty or toot chair in mt room lol Must of been a shock finding yourself "on the floor wondering if I had to set off my Mepacs alarm or go to the loo" Why do we worry so much about 'dignity' at such times?

Glad your sprains is getting better fast.

Yes, i think.you should take your computer to Hobart. We might need you too Dec xox

I'm ok'sh, though at my parents, helping dad re mum, under fire from TS etc. And fatigue & cardio vasvular strain has set in this week.

And just now i became very discouraged / disappointed my / Tawney's "sleeping too much" thread is no longer accessable to me or the public i presume. And someone else started a thread with the same name (not as good of cause lol). So much for using the forum as a personal record of growth and reference - disappointing + cruel. I am human. Just wanted some dates for my Sydney trips, for court documents (since i left my diaries back in Qld), perhaps it is unwise to pour my heart out here. It hurts. I hope someone lost their job over that mess - i sense it. Thinking i might have to lose the link (lapses) to feel safe. I don't know anymore. Just rubbish.

But i am glad i met you here Dec. Thank you 🙂


Can't believe my mum has been gone for 4 wks now. I dont feel anything. Dad needs someone here, cant believe the other sibs couldn't see that. At least if i have to go back north in the near future - i know i've given my best and valued my extra time with dad.

I've finally booked into a psychologist for support down here. Guess my family truly will never ever change. This is a lonely place I'm sure you know well. Its hwlped me so much to know you have survived so much - hope for me xox

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Hello @Former-Member

I am sorry to hear you are feeling disappointed and discouraged as your 'Sleeping Too Much' thread is unable to be found when you needed it & someone else started a thread called the same thing. I am not sure why that is, however I can look into it if you would like?

Please feel free to email us at team@saneforums.org if you have any other issues with the forums, so we can be of help.

Lunar 🙂

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Thanks Lunar, during my nursing i had patience who wouldnt tell who hurt them or fill out the complaint forms i gave them, why? because they didn't want retalliation / something worse. But yes, look into it. I'm guessing youll just come back telling me about 'former members' (Tawney), or refer me to the guideline or remind me my story here is the property of SANE now & how i agreed to this when i signed up... ... Whatever. Feeling powerless is part of MI. But if there is a way i CAN access TAWNEY'S thread SleepingTooMuch (without the? ) - do let me know. But thanks for your empathy, i'm still a fledgling using social media so my feelings need work. Dont worry too much, l find other ways outside here to get what i need. Thanks Lunar

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Heart @Former-Member @Owlunar Heart

Just saying hi and bye

Keep the faith

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Hi & bye backatchya @Appleblossom

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Hi @Former-Member

Im reading through some of your storys . Im sorry that you lost your mum.
Im sorry that your having a hard time on here to. If you ever want to chat ....im always here. Ok. ❤💖
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Aww, shucks @bubbles, thanks. Its nobody giving me a hard time - just a system and tje past. Yes, reality in ya face bites at first but OUCH! But the emotions havent snowballed like usual this time. Not taken by surprise so much & maybe, And very tired. But thanks. There is a forum tech section but whats the point. Are u ok yourself today? think i saw you had a bad day yesterday. Hope its improved.

My parents have the most gorgious dog called Georgia, she's so affectionate, and seems to know when we need cudfles. I'll try post a pic later. Do u have a dog? @Owlunar, is your old cat still with us? Almost too scared to ask. Poor Appleblossm lost hers, i lost my terrier last year 😞 Nice chatting - have to go do dinner shortly. xox

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Yes im feeling better today @Former-Member . I have my melt down moments where mark comes back. Im just happy that i havent been booted off the site yet. Coz iv said some wrong things other the last few days.

How are you doing. What did you do today.

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