Underneath this bl%dy mi he is a very good man @greenpea ..... he is just lost in it and can’t see what is happening yet. The one damaging his physical health is an eating disorder, but nowhere near “standard” so even more hidden than a so-called standard one. He never does anything by halves ..... but driving the ed appears to be a familial personality disorder, also in the bl%dy hard to both identify and reach basket .....
The good news is that the effects on the rest of us have reduced dramatically now that two of the three the kids still at home have been diagnosed with associated disorders, and they have come under mh doctors, and mr’s behaviour (all our behaviour) come under the microscope ....
