Am Not Coping

[Shaz51]

ohh sorry you still have a headache , hope you feel better soon @Zoe7

My siactiais playing up again , catching me now and hen with pain xx

do something that you enjoy , to make you laugh if you can

i will sit with you my ssister

hello @oceangirl xx

[Zoe7]

helllloooooo @oceangirl 

I'm ok @Shaz51 - just one of those days! Thanks for sitting with me 

[utopia]

@Shaz51 & @Zoe7. It's getting cold here now. Maybe a hot bath would be good. Maybe with bubbles (a squirt of shampoo - I don't buy bubble bath mix). And I could read my book while having a soak.
What about you @Shaz51 - would a hot bath or shower help with your pain?
@Zoe7 - what can help you right now? A comedy on tv - a shower - making yourself a yummy treat?

[utopia]

Happy Easter @oceangirl. I hope you are having a nice evening.

[Zoe7]

I'm ok @utopia - just flat, tired and sick of being sick. I'll be ok - no need to worry 

[Shaz51]

Yes a nice hot shower will be nice @utopia 

sit with you anytime my sisters @Zoe7, @oceangirl 

[utopia]

Sending you all my love. I'm off for a bath. Will check in with you later @Zoe7

[Zoe7]

Thanks @utopia 

Enjoy your bath. I hope I'm asleep soon - would kinda like this day to just be over!! 

[Phoenix_Rising]

Wanders into octagonal room and drops off leftovers from FF to @Zoe7 

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@Shaz51Thanks for the hugs, they're much appreciated.

@Zoe7I like the way you describe the forum as a family, supporting each other. That's a great (uplifting) thought.

@utopiaYep, I've still been reading quite a few posts (on related topics), & that definitely does help me to feel some sort of conncection - even if the thread was written ages ago.

Keeping too busy is actually not very healthy, at least with dealing with grief (loss), & some other issues.

Work stress & busy-ness seem to put emotions & "processing things" on hold, at least for me they do. It wasn't by choice, though.

Sometimes I've managed to phone Griefline (to talk about Dad), & that helps.

I must say it's great that you people are on here posting, even though this is often a busy (frantic) time of year (like Christmas) - it's good company.

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