Am Not Coping

[Faith-and-Hope]

Thanks @Zoe7 .... 🤗❤️💕

[Zoe7]

Hope some light shines on you today - you might need these just in case 😎
Enjoy your walk @Faith-and-Hope
Thinking of you 💕

[Faith-and-Hope]

😎 .... got 'em .... thanks @Zoe7 .....

Heading to the river from the coffee shop now .... guess who I just saw jogging past ??

At least I know where he is now ..... lol .... hopefully he's jogged all the norties out ....

❤️

[utopia]

@Faith-and-Hope. Bugger that was a hard night and morning.
I thought it would be simple to simply unplug the tv. Apparently not.
and then having grumpy bum go on a sulk. Aaarrrggghhh!!!! I'm glad you could just walk away & have some you time.
Sending you love. ♥♥

[Zoe7]

Hey @Faith-and-Hope - just a thought for 'next time' - where's the fuse box? May be a bit drastic to flick the switch - but would at least turn the tv off lol😉

[Faith-and-Hope]

😂😂😂

Oh @Zoe7 .... that would also turn off the house alarm ...... and personal security is so high in WH's dysfunction that he tracks us with our phones, and cameras in and around the house .... and temporary cameras when we're away ..... flicking that switch would have brought a sky show raining down on me last night .... ❣

Yep .... living between a rock and a hard place ..... but by choice, in that I could have packed up the kids and left when all of this started emerging ..... we just ignore it, knowing that all that is actually his problem and doesn't affect our daily life beyond being bizarre, and invasive if you focus on it ..... but he can't be reasoned with about it so it's all or nothing for now.....

Someone with a qualification beyond any I might have needs to deal with this.

I'm very good at leaving things in the moment .- beyond the occasional "bl%dy" that is .... lol ....

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[Faith-and-Hope]

The river is really calm this morning .... just beautiful .....

I have spoken with S2 and he's up and about, bright eyed and bushy-tailed ..... told me he did set things off last night by not being available for a board game cos he was "out of it" on lack of sleep ...... intends to tame the tiger with a board game later today, if he can .... at least he is on board and helping to field our situation this morning .....

@Zoe7

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[Zoe7]

I so admire your strength and loyalty 😚 but can only imagine how hard it is to live in the moment when there is so much going on around you and for you! I am sitting here just shaking my head and feeling for you - for WH to have to know where everyone is all the time - oh dear!!!! That much control really is unacceptable - been there, suffered through it, didn't get out when I knew I should - have to deal with the consequences now! Thank goodness there were no kids involved - and to be honest the hate overtook the love - feeling for you and walking beside you 💕

[Zoe7]

@Faith-and-Hope forgot to tag you - above post!
I know your situation is very different - but still really difficult 😔

[Former-Member]

From what I've read I distressed a few of you last night. Never my plan and I feel really sh*t about that. Hope your all ok.