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A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)

Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)

@Emelia8 🤗💞

Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)

Just got home. Very weary and need a sleep. Today was sooo much better than last Thursday. 🌸 Back later. Thanks everyone. 💞

Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)

@Emelia8 

 

Hi Em - 

 

I took some time out for the anniversaries of my parents' passing and I am not sure when I last posted but I have read some of your messages about your treatment and of course - other things in your life and it has to be hard - and so complicated - having radio-oncology and the toxic little white pills that look so innocent.

 

It would be a tough ask if you were supported but you are not - in fact you have your husband needing to be cared for and this has to make the whole thing a much bigger deal for you

 

 I would like to say things about those little white pills but choose not to - but I am sure you can guess - the side effects vary as I have heard and loosing your hair - which was long - that has to be a very - ah - I can't think of the right words right here - it seems to strip you bare - in so many ways - physically, emotionally, figuratively - 

 

I usually write so easily but I am stuck here - I am sending my love through cyber-space - my thoughts - everything I can really - and really wish I could be there with you through all of this

 

You are a truly beautiful person Em - life has been hard on you - still - through it all your light really does shine

 

Dec

 

Your light really does shineYour light really does shine

Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)

@Emelia8 

 

Hi Em - 

 

I took some time out for the anniversaries of my parents' passing and I am not sure when I last posted but I have read some of your messages about your treatment and of course - other things in your life and it has to be hard - and so complicated - having radio-oncology and the little white pills that look so innocent.

 

It would be a tough ask if you were supported but you are not - in fact you have your husband needing to be cared for and this has to make the whole thing a much bigger deal for you

 

 I would like to say things about those little white pills but choose not to - but I am sure you can guess - the side effects vary as I have heard and loosing your hair - which was long - that has to be a very - ah - I can't think of the right words right here - it seems to strip you bare - in so many ways - physically, emotionally, figuratively - 

 

I usually write so easily but I am stuck here - I am sending my love through cyber-space - my thoughts - everything I can really - and really wish I could be there with you through all of this

 

You are a truly beautiful person Em - life has been hard on you - still - through it all your light really does shine

 

Dec

 

Your light really does shineYour light really does shine

Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)

Sitting with you my friend xxx @Emelia8 🥰💝💖🍩🍰

Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)

Another day Em.

You did good 😊

🤗🙏💞

@Emelia8 

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Thinking of you @Emelia8 

rest now❤️🌸

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I'm so glad today went better than last Thursday @Emelia8  I was thinking of you during my moments of crisis, thinking this is nothing in comparison to what emelia is going through and she doesn't complain, just gets on with it. I'm working towards having your amount of strength.

 

I hope you are feeling not to weary tonight.

 

Sleep well. 🦋❤️🦋

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@Emelia8  Hey Em how thinking of you sweetheart. I have been such an industrious lil pea today. So much cleaning and gardening.  Even cut my son2's hair (well gave it a trim lol Smiley Wink). I trimmed by hair too. All I have to do is do the back yard tomorrow and vacuum my son2's room. Kitchen is decent so can wait for another day 🙂

 

Wish I could be there to do your's while you are away. You know you might qualify for free cleaning service through ndis while you are going through treatment. Is there anyone who can look into it for you? Love peaxxx

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I am so happy today was better, I was comfy during your appointment after I had a little snooze 😁

I can imaging you are busy sorting out your bag and making sure that hubby is sorted for the next three days. He'll be ok Em, I hope you can put your feet up tonight and have some Holly cuddles. You are never out of my thoughts, not for a minute. Love you to bits and I'll see you again in the morning if I don't see you later here. 👀👂🙏🤗✔️🌺💕

@Emelia8 

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