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Re: Had enough

Sometimes when I do manage to organise myself it’s helpful but also I agree too much structure can do the opposite for me @Appleblossom I have adhd so organising/remembering is not my strong point but also sometimes the anxiety kicks if there isn’t certainty or a plan, ha what a contradiction. Yeah I’m not sure yet, I should probably go but I probably won’t, h haven’t cancelled it yet 

Re: Had enough

what is it for @ArraDreaming 

 

I have a wonderful ex brother in law ... who I dont see cos of family splits etc ... but he is a passionate performer as a Mexican guitarist ... and really good with people ... chaotic as anything ... drove my sister mad ...

 

It takes all types

 

Find a way a strengths based approach

 

Even when my kids were little ... I believed a little mess was good for creativity ... rather than too much structure and order ...

 

Now the church I go to ... have a messy church activity for young and old .... I have not been, but see it as a great idea for working against rigid thinking ... and developing connection.

 

 

Re: Had enough

Started seeing a psych again after a couple of years off it 2nd app meant to be today @Appleblossom 

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Funny thing ... not ... is she was the only one who had no physical or mental health problems ... Hmmm ...

Take care @ArraDreaming 

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@ArraDreaming  ologist or pdoc?

 

I have seen a few of them in my time ... never cancelled but not always sure they were worth it ... do have a sense of respect .. or clicking?

 

I make a bad joke that my family has single handedly supported the industry ... weary sigh ...

Re: Had enough

Psychologist I don’t really feel like going not because I don’t like them I just don’t give a fuck about doing anything that might help right now to be honest

Re: Had enough

I went even though I didn’t want to @Appleblossom 

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Aaaah ...  for me ... the "Not giving a *&*& feeling" often comes and goes like all the other feelings. 

 

Worth a try ... give you some street cred for the romantic getaway ....

@ArraDreaming 

 

Find the place where we dont shoot selves in the foot ...

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Sorry for last post ... just saw your most recent. @ArraDreaming 

 

For me going to psychologists became about my discipline to show up ... as honestly they never gave me any info or strategies ... kinda why I am pretty skeptical about them atm.

 

But still ... if I hadna gone I would be 6 foot under .... talking of feet .... 

 

Whether its any good ... you often cant tell ... til way later ....

Re: Had enough

I have seen so many in my time haven’t clicked with all of them for sure @Appleblossom yeah can’t say for sure it’s working after only 2 appointments but I don’t know I’ll keep going because I have to and just hope it’s not a waste of my time and money
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