SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

[Former-Member]

Well I have achieved something in my girls room. Cleared off the bed. Found clothes I forgot I had. Dragged out a mountain of blankets, pillows & cushions I don't really need, or use. Like 5 carbafe bags full. Rediculous. Can't bring myself to collapse her bed getting distressed - so closing the door. But that's pretty good for today I think. 💜

[Faith-and-Hope]

@Former-Member ..... 💜💕

[Former-Member]

I went to Dr re annoying palpitations all week, he didn't like ECG so sent me to A&E, they took bloods and admitted me to medical ward for observation o/n 😞 home in AM all going well they said. Probably nothing. I feel OK, just tired. Stress is real. Feel safe here 💜

[Maggie]

@Former-Member💜💜💜

[Faith-and-Hope]

I hope things have settled for you this morning @Former-Member ..... you are under an awful lot of strain at the moment.  I am glad you have someone looking after you, even if it’s just overnight.  I do that with my foot massages - pay someone to look after me for an hour ..... it doesn’t tick all the boxes, but it matters.

Hoping you have some of your magic soup on hand when you get home.

💜💐💕

[Former-Member]

@Former-Member

You have been showing great strength whilst pressing on through immense grief.

Bravo for continuing to conquer the mountain one step at a time.

Slowly here, bit by bit surfaces are being revealed. I have divided a pile of display folders to donate to two different places.

[Former-Member]

Thanks @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope, @Maggie, cried reading your messages of caring. Mt son just tx he's not up to the 5hr drive here and back. I feel alone though surrounded by busy staff & sick ppl. Stay calm! stay calm! I keep telling myself!

Ooo! Ooo! Breakfast in bed - that's a first lol

PH battery nearly out so glad I cought yas first.

Thank You! 💜

[Faith-and-Hope]

Enjoy the breakfast in bed @Former-Member ..... I don't think they come around too often for most people .....

💜

[Owlunar]

Hi @Former-Member

Brekkie in bed - it's not quite worth the hassle but definitely a plus

How long to you expect to be in hospital? And yes - take the rest while you can - this is a rough time for you and you did so much when you were down looking after your oldies for a couple of days

Thinking of you heaps

Dec

[Former-Member]

My two visits to help mum and dad this year were 14 and 18 solid days, (while mum in hospital) not 'a couple' days. And it felt like much more because of the crap### - pathetic I know. 

Today i fell asleep after getting home from little holiday in hospital, really tired and just woke up. Hospitals are not good places for sleep - so catching up i guess, plus there's nothing and nobody around - trying not to self pitty about that. I must be a nobody really, irrelevant, dontvmatter i guess. Im glad they kept me in hospital because SI was very high yesterday, not good being alone.

Black sky to the east here, distant thunder, need to go lock up and go back to sleep sorry.

Hope everyone's OK here 🎂